fix: override local 03 group priority with what we get from merge

ts/receiver/configMessage.ts

@@ -725,7 +725,8 @@ async function handleSingleGroupUpdate({
     );
   }
 
-  if (!ConvoHub.use().get(groupPk)) {
+  const convoExisting = ConvoHub.use().get(groupPk);
+  if (!convoExisting) {
     const created = await ConvoHub.use().getOrCreateAndWait(groupPk, ConversationTypeEnum.GROUPV2);
     const joinedAt =
       groupInWrapper.joinedAtSeconds * 1000 || CONVERSATION.LAST_JOINED_FALLBACK_TIMESTAMP;
@@ -743,6 +744,12 @@ async function handleSingleGroupUpdate({
     });
     await created.commit();
     getSwarmPollingInstance().addGroupId(PubKey.cast(groupPk));
+  } else {
+    // Note: the priority is the only **field** we want to sync from our user group wrapper for 03-groups
+    const changes = await convoExisting.setPriorityFromWrapper(groupInWrapper.priority, false);
+    if (changes) {
+      await convoExisting.commit();
+    }
   }
 }